Since this is my blog and I can write as I wish, then I’ll say working with women is like twisting and turning a jagged sword into your chest a thousand times.
The ‘women’ do not have to be your boss. These creatures can appear in many disguises; your colleagues, your staff, your vendor..anyone..but if they are classified as ‘women’, the you’re in for a torturous nightmare in the office.
Yes – people don’t have to hark me back me that I am one. A woman. But put all of ‘us’ in one confined area like the office, then you get a blistering backdrop that even Lucifer himself dare not step in.
The female species is by nature; manipulative beings. In my 32 years of age, went to an all-girls boarding school, went through the ‘young/dating’ period in my twenties and still going through my career life, all I can say is they are scheming, complicated, overly sensitive, easily threatened creatures.
They say one thing and meant the other. They are nice if they want something in return. Honesty is never in their dictionary. If you think a woman is nice and honest, you’re being deceived. The worse part is that some of them do not even realize that they have ‘hidden agenda’ up their sleeves. But trust me..they do.
That’s the whole reason why reality shows are such hits; Amazing Race, For Love or Money, The Bachelor et al. They focus on the catty fights, bitchy comments and ‘mengumpat’.
Rather frankly, I find it easier talking to the guys. Completely platonic relationship. Maybe I grew up with three elder brothers…maybe guys are more straight-forward. And what you see is what you get. Simple as that.
Thursday, August 19, 2004
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4 comments:
I appreciate your opinion but I do feel sorry for you being so narrow minded.
I work in an all girl office and we are great friends, honest and hard working. I have never encountered any problems at all working with women, and yes I am one.
Women don't always have an agenda... we just have foresight. This helps shape our actions. Which is why we may seem calculating, which in essence we are, but not for malicious reasons.
I prefer to take each person for who they and not judge or stereotype half the bloody worlds population!
If you have such an issue with women, maybe you should look within yourself for the problem... not within every other women in the world.
I think that you're also kidding yourself.
YOU ARE A WOMAN.
You are not better than the rest of us.
You must have issues making friends?? You've also just implied than men are better than women in the workplace. Come on... you for real? Have you never met a bitchy man? I certainly have.
I vote we take every person for who they are instead of prejudging.
Thank you anonymous for your comment. Actually I feel much better now. Yes - everyone has their own agenda. Be it a woman or a man or the in-betweens.
A blog written in heated, highly pissed-off moment..
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mummy, i didn't say it, you did. there are some truths but (the guys are going to kill me) there are some written out of anger. oh my lorrrrdd, have i switched to the other side?
dudae
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~~Hello, I thought this is mommy's blog and she can express whatever she felt. Now I'm confused, you made me confused "anonymous".. You don't have the right to barged in and say “If you have an issue with women maybe you should look within yourself for the problem” or “you must have an issue making friends??” that is so just narrow minded of you. I repeat NARROW MINDED OF YOU, NOT MUMMY.. You just giving mummy some lame reason. I think you are the one having troubles, WITH MEN, and you just can’t accept the fact that women can be so bitchy. Because you are one “I am working in all girl office, we are great friends, honest and hardworking.” You must be working in some small company anonymous.. Yup, and honest?? Come on!! Get real man. Don’t tell me when you and your gurls sat together or having lunch, you don’t condemn other women or men. Yes, you are honest with your clique, but only saint does not criticize other women, you are not Mother Theresa. Oh get real anonymous, your comment is one BIG FAT LIES to cover your smelly ass. Just remember, people don’t praise themselves when they are right, they only say good about themselves in public when in real they are actually the opposite and they cant accept the truth about themselves..
P/S: Next time if you want to give any comment, please think wisely before you talk cz your mouth stink ~~
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